Okay, so I'm a few hours ahead of schedule, but what difference is it going to make. Seriously? None. Only one person who asked to be allowed, that stated to me their email address, I have not added. Why? Well, because I'm not so sure I can trust said person enough to NOT go blabbing to another certain someone what I write. Since, that other certain someone is one of the big reasons why I finally made the decision to go private.
I don't think many people realize, but I have a tracker on my blog, and it is literally telling me who is coming to my page, when and how. In other words, if you came to my blog, using blogger's dashboard, it tells me. If you came to my blog using RSS feeds, it tells me. If you came to my blog, using a link, from some where else, anywhere, it tells me. It also tells me who you are, and where you are from, and what time, you came to my blog.
I was real tired of seeing this person coming to my blog, EVERY time I blogged. I'm not okay with that. I made the decision months ago, to end my friendship with them, and for a reason. I do NOT want them to see what I am up to, how I am doing, and where I am going, with my life. Along with a couple other people that are visiting my blog still, that I'm not okay with. Not to mention the random drop ins. I used to not mind it so much, but lately, I'm wanting my life to remain private.
As is my prerogative.
-Khai
P.S. I also didn't add someone else, due to the fact they never gave me their email address. Oh well, they know how to contact me if they want to.
As was one of my reasons why I am going private too. Not completely the same reason, but some of it. You know the rest. But, I think you and I both have made the right choice. If they want to stay in our lives (the other person/people) they'll find us. The rest don't matter.
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